Dating idea mormon
Real, practical, significant insight and help vs mindless brainwashing and emotional programing. My biggest problem with pornography really has little to do with the sexual aspect of it. But that doesn’t mean its not worth, and that doesn’t mean its not true. And it destroys them, UNLESS they can realize that it doesn’t have to be that way.They will undoubtedly assist many young men and couples in alleviating harmful guilt and pain… I hate the thing because it makes me lose my self control. The truth is, even when you’ve figured it all out, you will likely still sometimes fall into the trap of pornography. All good things in life take hard work, and most of them will require a change in you. Its about looking up and seeing what your missing, the person you could be. Pick yourself up by the boot straps and start making it better, by your own sweat. I only wish that the church did not foster the “trashy” feelings that it does in relation to these issues, but the more I learn about the church, the more I am certain that, almost invariably, these are the feelings that it fosters. i am a born again believer in Jesus, and i struggle with lust, lust of the eyes, lust of the flesh, and masturbation is the spinoff of lust and porn also, i have done everything i know to do, regarding the bible, etc.greater healing will come through that then it ever will talking to a man in an office who is likely viewing pornography himself but making sure you feel like trash for doing so. But the realization of sin is not about making you feel like trash. The thing is, to admit the truth and go against it is painful, bu that doesn’t mean the truth should be abandoned.After watching the first session of General Conference at the request of my parents these videos were a breath of fresh air. I believe that sex is a sacred thing to be enjoyed by a husband and wife alone, and pornography turns it into a game, and causes you to hunger for something that is not good. The church tells them they are horrible because of them.I’m not sure why it didn’t, maybe just because humans are at times surprisingly resilient.Once while discussing my problem with a Bishop at BYU (who compounded my guilt by convincing me I had an addiction), he confided in me that about half the boys in the elders quorum were dealing with pornography and working with him.For years and years I had beat myself up over it, and like the man shown here, I was constantly looking for the magic key that would help me overcome it once and for all and I always assumed I was the worst guy in the room.I couldn’t agree more with what was said by Kerri, the solution is to remove the church, be real, face the issue with a rational mind. To notice how something seemingly innocent has crippled your life, and then to go forward honestly trying to make it better is a huge part of life.
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and im speaking of the Jesus of the bible, not the mormon Jesus.
This masturbation is really wrecking my life and i cant stop it, so hopefully chemical castration will work for me.
It’s a little funny, but after I talked few months ago with Mormons about the concept of grace, and how they have to be perfect so that grace is sufficient, or a verse from BOM says that “we are saved by grace after all we can do” I now know better how much grace means to me, and how impossible would it be to save myself through my works.
I think what revolutionized my life was the concept of grace and not trusting my own flesh(Philippians 3:3),not even a bit. Please read through Romans chapters 3-6, you’ll see how no one is righteous, how righteousness can only be received through faith and is imputed to us from Christ, and being justified by faith we now have peace with God, we’ve found REST : D, Being crucified with Christ means that our self(sin nature) was crucified, and now being in Christ WE DON’T OWE THE FLESH anything because “the body ruled by sin might be done away with” “When you were slaves to sin, you were free from the control of righteousness.
That’s just the ones that had actually talked to him.